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Choosing a Gift Together

Start with the dialogue

Discuss a recipient’s interests, compare gift ideas and agree on a choice within a budget.

Suggested level: ElementaryPractice: 10–12 minutes

Your speaking goal

Compare two gift ideas using preferences and cost, then confirm who will do what next.

Before you start: Imagine choosing a birthday gift for a fictional friend. Pick a shared total budget and two possible gifts.

Your six-step practice plan

  1. Understand: Read the goal and check the useful phrases.
  2. Listen or read: Follow both roles. Audio is optional.
  3. Repeat: Say one short line at a time, then join the words smoothly.
  4. Change details: Replace two details with imaginary ones.
  5. Role-play: Read the other person’s question, cover your reply and answer aloud. Then swap roles.
  6. Review: Use the “I can” checks below. Repeat any part that still needs help.

Work at your own pace. A clear message matters more than copying a particular accent.

Listen, read and notice

Roles: Asha and Leo

Asha: What should we get Mina for her birthday?

Leo: She likes gardening. How about a plant?

Asha: That’s an idea. I’m not sure how much space she has, though.

Leo: Good point. What about a gardening book instead?

Asha: That could work. How much should we spend altogether?

Leo: Shall we keep it under twenty pounds?

Asha: Yes. This book is sixteen pounds, and a card is two pounds.

Leo: So eighteen pounds in total. That’s within our budget.

Asha: Do we know whether she already has this book?

Leo: Not yet. I’ll check with her brother before we buy it.

Asha: Great. Once you’ve checked, I can get the card.

Leo: Agreed. Let’s wait for his reply first.

Useful phrases and what they do

  • How about ___? — Suggest a possible gift.
  • I’m not sure whether ___. — Raise a point that still needs checking.
  • How much should we spend altogether? — Agree on a combined total, not an amount per person.
  • That’s within our budget. — Say the cost does not exceed the amount set aside.

Say it clearly

Separate the prices: ‘SIXTEEN pounds for the book / TWO pounds for the card / EIGHTEEN pounds altogether.’ Make the total clear before confirming the decision.

Build your own replies

How about ___? → That could work, but we need to check ___.

Ask and check

Do you mean twenty pounds each or twenty pounds in total? → Twenty pounds in total.

Common mistakes and alternatives

‘Altogether’ means ‘in total’ here. ‘All together’ can mean people or things being together in one place. ‘Under twenty pounds’ means less than twenty; ‘up to twenty pounds’ can include twenty.

Check what you understood

Answer aloud before revealing each explanation. Natural replies with the same meaning also count.

Question 1

Why do they consider a book instead of a plant?

Show answer 1 and explanation

They are unsure how much space Mina has. This is a practical concern about the first idea, not a statement that she dislikes plants.

Question 2

What is the combined cost of the example book and card?

Show answer 2 and explanation

Eighteen pounds: sixteen plus two. That is less than their twenty-pound limit.

Question 3

Have they agreed to buy the book immediately?

Show answer 3 and explanation

No. Leo will first check whether Mina already has it. Asha can get the card after that check.

Your turn: make it a real exchange

Practise alone: read the other person’s line, cover your reply and answer aloud. Then swap roles. No partner is needed.

Role A

Suggest a gift, explain a concern about one option and agree on a total budget.

Role B

Offer an alternative, check the total cost and agree what needs confirming before buying.

Make it easier: Keep the model visible and change one detail at a time.

Add a challenge: The preferred gift costs more than the budget. Suggest a different item or a revised plan, and agree before spending anything.

Ready to move on?

Try again with less reading. Use these checks and repeat any part that needs more practice.

  • I can suggest and compare gift ideas.
  • I can clarify a total budget.
  • I can confirm a next step without assuming a purchase is agreed.

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